“AI Is Not Taylor Swift”: Jeffrey Escobar on Why “AI’s Biggest Fans” Is the Wrong Frame

Business Insider’s August 5 story ended on a line about how lonely it is out there for AI’s biggest fans.
Escobar’s objection is to one word.
Fans. AI is not Taylor Swift. It’s not Olivia Rodrigo, it’s not Drake. It’s a tool. You’re not a fan of a hammer.
He thinks the word does real damage to how the whole thing gets understood.
“Fandom is passive. You consume the thing, you defend the thing online, you get identity from the thing. That’s a completely different activity from picking up a tool and building something with it. Calling us fans turns production into consumption, and then the story writes itself as these poor guys are obsessed with a chatbot.”
His preferred description is plainer.
“We’re just early. That’s all. We’re the ones using it first to try to build something that makes life better. Early is not the same as devoted.”
On being called crazy
He has a settled view on the social reaction, and he is unusually careful about how he frames it.
“When you’re first at anything, people call you weird. That’s not a complaint, that’s just the pattern, and it’s been the pattern forever.”

Asked whether he thinks people who do not get it are less capable, he declines the framing and walks back a harder version he has used before.
“No, and I want to be careful here, because there’s a version of this argument that’s just contempt with better vocabulary. I’ve caught myself in it. People aren’t slow. They’re operating on the information they have, and most people’s information about this is a year old, which in this field is ancient. That’s not a character defect. That’s just a lag.”
He adds the practical reason it does not bother him.
“And in two years the gap closes anyway. Anybody building an identity on being early should plan for the day early stops being a distinguishing feature. It’s coming fast.”
“It’s a video game”
The most disarming thing he says is about why the difficulty is the point.
“This is fun because it’s a video game. You start with nothing and you build your own world. If I’d been born into all this, if I’d inherited a huge AI company, I don’t think I’d be in the position where I have to do this constant thing. And that would be worse, not better.”
He is direct that starting from zero is the feature.
The grit and the effort are what make it a game instead of a job. Take those out and what’s left? Managing something somebody else built.
The part he actually cares about
Pressed on what the goal is beyond the company, he moves to something closer to a thesis.
“What I love is when I talk to somebody and they believe it. They like the idea, they want to work with us, they want to be part of this. Arsh and I built something with a pull to it, and you can feel it working when people start moving on their own.”
That is not abstract for him. He points to the inbox.
“We get messages from people who got inspired. We get emails from people starting their own company because of something we said or built. That’s the actual return. That’s better than a metric.”
He believes it is close to an obligation.
“If you’re first at something, if you’re making a real change, you have to be an inspiration to other people. That’s not optional. People see somebody who can actually get things done and they follow. So build something people can believe in and want to be part of. That’s what every large company that ever mattered actually was underneath the product.”
The counterweight
He was asked the hardest question last: how would he know if he were wrong?
He does not deflect it.
Everybody at a frontier says they’ll be understood later. So does everybody who’s just wrong. Those two look identical from the inside.
His test is external.
“So the only honest check is whether the thing works. Does the product get used. Do the numbers hold. Does the company survive contact with reality. If those go, I was right about the window. If they don’t, I was a guy who skipped a World Cup final for nothing, and I’ll own that too.”
He does not dismiss the loneliness framing either, and this is the second time in the series he has declined to.
“And the reporting wasn’t baseless. The WHO called loneliness a global health priority in 2023, the Surgeon General called it a national epidemic, the research puts social isolation at something like 32% higher risk of dying early. I’d be an idiot to wave that off because I didn’t like the headline.”
His disagreement is narrower than it first sounds.
“My argument was never that there’s no cost. It’s about the cause. I’m not isolated because I love a chatbot. I’m early, I’m busy, and the people moving at this speed are rare right now. That’s a temporary condition, and it’s a very different problem than the one that got printed.”
Then the last thing he says, which is roughly where this whole series has been heading.
Fans wait for the next album. I’ve got a product in 175 countries and a list of things to fix. Those aren’t the same job.
This is one of twelve features expanding on the August 2026 Business Insider story. The full record collects every line that ran and the complete version of each.
Jeffrey Escobar is the Founder and CTO of Addicting Elements, an app studio behind House AI, an AI interior design app with 1M+ downloads; Fictura, an AI agentic CEO for mobile app founders; and WorkBleu, a top talent engineering and design company providing digitization, modernization, and AI implementation for businesses and firms in the USA. This interview was conducted and edited by Addicting Elements.
Sources
- Henry Chandonnet, “The AI bros are lonely,” Business Insider, August 5, 2026. businessinsider.com
- World Health Organization loneliness commission, 2023. U.S. Surgeon General advisory on loneliness and isolation, 2023.
- Pew Research Center, “Americans and AI 2026,” June 2026, on the adoption curve: 49% of US adults use AI chatbots, up from 23% in 2023.
